For
the love so pure,
For
the bond de jure,
For
the hope anew,
For
the relationship so true...
Our Relationship
It
was an arranged marriage for us. But as marriages are made in Heaven
(philosophically) and opposite attracts (scientifically) similar is the case
for us. We two, entwined together by destiny forever have completely
contrasting characters. I being chatty and inquisitive while he being silent
and knowledgeable, I am eloquent while he is generous, I become indecisive and
nervous at times while he is optimistic.
Our relationship is like air and fire active
and powerful. It’s a very fiery,
passionate connection; there’s always something going on. Within all these
dynamics I always ponder that we know each other so well. But sooner did I start
realizing that there is still much to know about him and for him to understand
about me. And then, at certain time it seems that so
much we appreciate each other yet so little.
As soon as we return
from the celebration we got so much tied up in our work that we hardly got time
to know much about each other. This being one reason and may be the actual
being that we were overconfident that after six months of courtship we identify
each other likes and dislikes pretty well. Office tensions, deadlines, what to
buy for groceries, planning for future, responsibilities are taking a toll on
our love life.
I know that we love
each other a lot but I am also missing the spark that was indeed required to
air
the fire. I discern love isn’t perfect. It is not a
fairy tale or a story book. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges,
fighting to be together, holding on and never letting it go. It’s a short word,
easy to spell, difficult to define, and impossible to live without. And we
cannot live without each other.
We love each other and perhaps we both know
each other completely but here the trouble is not only to know about each other
but also to spent time with each other so that we start loving even those
things what we didn’t understand about each other.
How to hear those untold things? How to
understand those unspoken words? How to get the time?What can I do to refuel my love life?
Then I saw this
beautiful emotional video from British Airways which perfectly defined the pure
relationship of an arrange marriage in which your heart speaks a thousand words
but your mouth can’t speak anything out, in which your eyes are the only mode
of speech and understanding. It relates to us so well and I am sure with any
couple in that matter.
I
promise you;
stars
I will bring and catch the morning light for you.
I
promise you;
I
will show the best of this life to you.
And then I have decided that our first
anniversary we are going to celebrate in the most romantic place of world
Europe. And yes I have planned everuything for the trip. The destination to go
are the Love cities Paris and Italy. The one prime reason behind choosing these
destinations are because they are his dream destinations.
Paris the eternal romantic destination of Europe famous for
outstanding cuisines, fashion, luxury goods and cocktail. Yes, visiting the
world’s wonder Eiffel Tower is definiytely on the cards but more to visit the
museums, the chapels and churches. I am sure he being the lover of History
would definitely love it. We will have lot of time to spend with each other and
more to understand each other.
Venice is perhaps the world’s most unique
romantic place is my dream destination and then the iconic gondola ride in the
city’s picturesque waterways. The art gallerys and the candle light dinner with
relishing venetian cuisines the italian food and the masked ball, the world
renowned Carnival of Venice. Then my dream to tie the knot again with him under
Juliet’s Window.
I am sure with this trip we are definitely
going to find out a new side of each other, we will definitely know each other
better and our Love and relationship will find a entirely new meaning in
itself.
I
promise you.
I
will reach you.
To show,
The
unconditional limitless love for you!!!
I am sure with time we will recognize
oneself with each other more than what we do today and this trip will prove a
relishing and memorable dream cum true for us.
For now I can just say the beauty that you have brought in my life
is beyond description. I hardly can express it in words my heart speaks a new
language now.
This post is a part of Indiblogger and British Airways 'Go Further to get Closer' contest.
very well expressed feelings with poems, text & pictures...looking forward for such good expressive writings from you..
ReplyDeleteAnd I am looking forward for the pics from Paris and Italy :D
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